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didn't mean to point a finger at girls who wear hijab, have lots of respects for those girls. lekin maine idher bahut si larkiyan dekhi hain jo ghar se hijaab main nikalti hain, jaise hi baher pahonchti hain tab aur tarah ki ho jati hain. anyway, sharia isn't all about hijab aur rahi darje ki baat, woh to Allah hi ko pata hai na.
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how old is ur cousin? what if u tell ur parents to wait for one or more years. if u convince them that u will marry him, but u want to wait for atleast a year. will they agree with it?
wish u all the best, may Allah bless u with lot of hapiness
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but how can u teach people Iman. if u would start teaching them they will say: hum koi abhi Musalmaan hue hain? Tum humain sikhaoge? that's what the main problem is.
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Smooth_daddy said:
Hijab and madrassa are great but they are not Islam in themselves. Hijab only works if it is taken by will and understanding and by internalizing iman. Forcing it or creating an environment that compells women to wear hijab without a will and understanding nurtures resentment leading to hate and contempt for sharia.
Madrassa are an institution of education and its scope to strict religous teachings has been limited only by narrow minds. School is an english word for madrassa, meaning a place of education. Like any instituion, job of a "madrassa" is to educate and groom youngsters of a society into productive and highly functional citizens. Who is responsible for limiting this scope of madrassas to a "seminary-like" function and then to a para-militant production units. where they are given a tunnel-vision of the world and the society which they care not to serve and make it a better place. They rather long to destroy it
u know, sub hi old madrassas main itne parhe likhe hain. they used to teach each and every lesson in a madrassa, not only Islam. it was a school of totality. due to Madrassas we, as pakistani, had also great people. so hope they will be back at their glory days
hijaab is necessary, i know. lekin hijaab dil ka bhi to hota hai na. aggar insaan hijaab kar ke bhi be-pardah ho to phir? main pardah nahin karti, lekin apne aur kissi mard main itna parda zaroor hota hai ke aisi waisi koi baat ya sooch na ho. i think u should first get purity of heart. then to complete it, get hijaab. that's my opinion.
Dua karein ke humara Pakistan eik rahe, aur Islamic Republic ka naam roshan kare. Eik Islamic country ban ke dikhaye.
nice one
