"Parda" an issue???

srk achay aur buray loog har jaga hotay hein .. it doesnt mean kay har larki ab aisee hee hai.. achee chezon ka bura use bhee hota hai..

i just asked that wht comes in ur mind from appreance??

Posted on 7/21/2005 9:50:18 PM

shahrukh khan:
jinko maine dekha hai unki baat ki hai

mainey Generally poocha hai .. kuch specific nahi ...

Posted on 7/21/2005 9:54:29 PM

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as srk said, aaj kal daikh kar pahla khyal yahi aata hay

pakistan ka nahin pata but here to ziada tar galz sirf dikhawa karti hain

to un ki wajha say, non muslims to hain hi but muslims bi ab aisa hi sochtay hain

Posted on 7/21/2005 9:54:29 PM

come on barich as i said before har jaga achay buray loog hotay he hein .. as last days main isuue tha kay jitnay logoon ki darhi(beard) hoti hai wo saab terrorist hotay hein ... and i m not going to discuss this coz phir saab off the topic he baat karein gay..

i m talking GENERALLY ...

Posted on 7/21/2005 9:57:27 PM

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friend_16:
come on barich as i said before har jaga achay buray loog hotay he hein .. as last days main isuue tha kay jitnay logoon ki darhi(beard) hoti hai wo saab terrorist hotay hein ... and i m not going to discuss this coz phir saab off the topic he baat karein gay..

i m talking GENERALLY ...

ahan sorry hamain aap ta Q samajhnay main ghalti hoi thi shayad

phir to

sum1 close 2 her religion

Posted on 7/21/2005 10:00:59 PM

My vote would be non of the above.

When I see a Muslimah covered in hijab, I think of her to have overcome a strong human desire of showing-off and embraced a ruling from her God.

This however doesn't mean that she is into practice of true Islam.

On the other hand, when I see a Muslimah NOT covered in hijab, I think of her to have been overcome by a strong human desire of showing-off and having IGNORED a ruling from her God. This however doesn't mean that she is out of the fold of Islam or doesn't practice other injunctions of Allah and His messenger.

The point is, we can't judge people by their apperance and much less their intention behind their apperarance. In both scenerios, individuals may not have accepted complete Islam in their lives but live only part of it. Allah SWT demands from us complete submission to His will and order.

Posted on 7/21/2005 10:07:07 PM

sachi baat,,
koi bhi nahi

hijab wali or bager hijab k,,, mere liye koi fark nahi
until i dont know the person,, and the reason y does she wear it
bohot si larkiyan sirff iss liye bhi pehenti hein kyunke its imposed by their family
bohooott tsi larkiyan aisi hein jo after marriage hijab leti hein,,, ehemm reason batate hue mujhe khud ajeeb sa lagta hai,, so kuch nahi kehte hum

kuch log hote hein wakai aise k khud se respect karne ka dil karta hai

Posted on 7/22/2005 9:29:08 AM

both for SD n SALL..

but i repeat my question ..

wht opinion comes into ur mind from her physical appreance??

coz kis nay kyun ye saab lia hai its a different thing..

Posted on 7/22/2005 1:50:45 PM

Xtreme

well let the women do what ever they wanna do , parda no parda shouldnt be a problem. thats what i think. live n let live .

Posted on 7/22/2005 3:13:59 PM

hmmm..
okk,,, agar sirffffff dekh k opinion dena hai to
1st one --> according to Islamic values

Xtreme (suna suna sa naam hai,,, heheh... where have ya been??)
agar parda mardon k liye hota to aap ki baat pe sab RIGHHTTT bolte
par yahan aurat ki baat ho rahi hai,,, dehan se comments dein
hehehhehee...
(i personaly dont agree to ur opinion,, han par hamara attitude balanced hona chaiye, marrdon aur aurton ki taraf)

Posted on 7/22/2005 3:32:19 PM

Who said there is no hijab for men. Modesty is for both, boys and girls; men and women are required to observe what is ordained.

Hijab's not just head gear. Girls are required to wear the headgear but boys required to wear modest clothing also. Both, boys and girls are required to lower their gaze at each other.

Posted on 7/22/2005 8:16:12 PM

i know SD
hum log symbols ko zyada mante hein,,
btw aaj tak nazrein neechi rakhne ko kissi ne issue nahi banaya

Y ??

Posted on 7/22/2005 10:08:12 PM

Hay is in the eyes

Posted on 7/24/2005 12:08:09 AM

woh to haiiii

sirf yeh puch rahi hu k haya ko aaj tak kissi ne issue kyun nahi banaayaaaaa..
i ve always heard k men r like that,, apni izzat karwani hai to parda karo

its a silly argument
dont u think ???

Posted on 7/24/2005 2:01:33 PM

You can't make an oppinion on someone by the way they look. That's shallow and backward and silly.

I know girls who wear hijab but are sluts and - I know girls who wear western clothes and are very decent.

Posted on 7/24/2005 8:16:16 PM

friend_16:
come on barich as i said before har jaga achay buray loog hotay he hein .. as last days main isuue tha kay jitnay logoon ki darhi(beard) hoti hai wo saab terrorist hotay hein ... and i m not going to discuss this coz phir saab off the topic he baat karein gay..

i m talking GENERALLY ...

Generally speaking I don't really think anything, other than that they are muslim.

But if I speak to a girl in hijab (who is a stranger) on the bus or in the library etc I will address her as 'sister'

Posted on 7/24/2005 8:18:50 PM

Chandramuki:
You can't make an oppinion on someone by the way they look. That's shallow and backward and silly.

I know girls who wear hijab but are sluts and - I know girls who wear western clothes and are very decent.

ur rite chand... but our problem today is people make comments on us on our clothings .. our physical beauty .. nobody looks inside, our inner beauty .. like sall said nobody cares about the HAYA ... esp men .. as if they can do anything they want.. only we galz need to cover ourselves .. wht about men???

still my question remains the same ..

Posted on 7/25/2005 4:16:35 PM

people i need ur votes .. whtever u think kindly vote as well..

and if ur vote is no of the above .. then write in few words about u think about women totaaly covered??

Posted on 7/25/2005 4:20:36 PM

Chandramuki:

I know girls who wear hijab but are ----- and - I know girls who wear western clothes and are very decent.

Wearing hijab in obedience of Allah bear many benefits -- salvage from greedy and lusty gaze of men possessed with sexual desires, symbol of haya and respect...
Those who wear hijab merely fulfill an Islamic requirement which doesn't mean they are righteous and pious. They may accepted one injunction of Quran but have not fully grasped other orders just like the other group.

Girls / women not wearing hijab are not necessarily bad and indecent. They however are deficient in fulfilling a divine injunction. This deficiency brings several ills - sick minds can't figure out from appearance who's good and who's not thus treat al women the same way.. They attract men to their appearance who only admire their physical being and ignore their intelligence...

Bottom line: Its not Hijab that's good or bad, its the peron who's wearing or not wearing it.

Posted on 7/26/2005 2:13:03 AM

hmmm,,,,,
so u think men admire a woman's 'intelligence and her inner feelings' if she wears hijab

plz dont mind
par kya me hans sakti hu

Posted on 7/26/2005 9:37:09 AM

What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object

Posted on 7/26/2005 8:18:28 PM

friend_16:

Chandramuki:
You can't make an oppinion on someone by the way they look. That's shallow and backward and silly.

I know girls who wear hijab but are sluts and - I know girls who wear western clothes and are very decent.

ur rite chand... but our problem today is people make comments on us on our clothings .. our physical beauty .. nobody looks inside, our inner beauty .. like sall said nobody cares about the HAYA ... esp men .. as if they can do anything they want.. only we galz need to cover ourselves .. wht about men???

still my question remains the same ..

Yes but why do you want strangers to look at you and understand your 'inner' beauty? I think it is important for people to mind their own buisness and not go around looking at others and making oppions about them.

If a girl wears hijab, don't stare at her wondering if she is really Islamic, and if a girl isn't wearing a hijab don't pry on her. The eyes are men's hijab, they are not meant to look at a women's body.

I think because sex education is such a frowned upon topic in Pakistan, people don't develope that sense of 'maturity', i.e. if you see a man/women scantily dressed, you ignore them, you don't get offended.

Posted on 7/26/2005 8:32:29 PM

Smooth_daddy:
What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object

Well a decent girl shouldn't be free mixing anyway. If she's so keen on presenting herself as an intelligent person she should be doing intelligent things (like getting a degree/working as a professional/ being a good mother etc) and then her actions would speak for intelligence themself.

Posted on 7/26/2005 8:35:57 PM

SALL:
hmmm,,,,,
so u think men admire a woman's 'intelligence and her inner feelings' if she wears hijab

plz dont mind
par kya me hans sakti hu

Men aren't meant to admire a unrealted women's anything.

But you know what? Hijab does make a women look respectful, and although most men want a girlfriend who's a tart they want to marry a women who's never even seen a guy and kept herself hidden from their eyes.

Posted on 7/26/2005 8:38:58 PM

Chandramuki:

Smooth_daddy:
What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object

Well a decent girl shouldn't be free mixing anyway. If she's so keen on presenting herself as an intelligent person she should be doing intelligent things (like getting a degree/working as a professional/ being a good mother etc) and then her actions would speak for intelligence themself.

Issue here is not free mixing or socializing, it is the appearance and how one is viewed from the outlook. Modesty in appearance (as defined and practised by the Prophet and his companions) wins respect and saves women from lusty eyes of indecent men.

Posted on 7/26/2005 10:25:51 PM

Chandramuki:

Smooth_daddy:
What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object

Well a decent girl shouldn't be free mixing anyway. If she's so keen on presenting herself as an intelligent person she should be doing intelligent things (like getting a degree/working as a professional/ being a good mother etc) and then her actions would speak for intelligence themself.

Issue here is not free mixing or socializing. It is how someone is viwed (perception) based on the outlook. Modesty, defined and practised by the Prophet and his companions, earns women respect for that they are humans and not objects of pleasure for the lusty eyes of indecent men.

Do you think women who are doing intelligent things their physique are not preyed upon by such filthy gazes?

Do you really think that men would pay attention to their intelligence when their eyes are charmed with the beauty of a girl?

Posted on 7/26/2005 10:36:20 PM

Smooth_daddy:
What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object

i didnt say that
wot im saying is,,,, nothing,, nothinnnn,, NOTHING allow a man to have bad intentions toward a woman,,, chahe woh jiss bhi halat mei ho

Posted on 7/26/2005 10:46:46 PM

Chandramuki:
Men aren't meant to admire a unrealted women's anything.

But you know what? Hijab does make a women look respectful, and although most men want a girlfriend who's a tart they want to marry a women who's never even seen a guy and kept herself hidden from their eyes.

exactly

matlab yeh hua k
pb is not in wearing hijab or not
pb is our sick minds,,,,,,
(it doesnt mean k hijab pehena mere liye galt hai)

me aise shaks se baat tak karna nahi pasand karu gi jo meri respect kare aur baki aurton ki nahi
aik ghatya zehniyat ka shaks meri izzat kare bhi to kya fark parta hai ???
shadi to door ki baat..................

Posted on 7/26/2005 10:51:15 PM

Smooth_daddy:

Chandramuki:

Smooth_daddy:
What would a girl prefer while talking to men (a decent girl), they meet and pay attention to her body before attending to an intelligent person?

What's more respectable for a girl in the onlooking gazes to be a human or a sex object

Well a decent girl shouldn't be free mixing anyway. If she's so keen on presenting herself as an intelligent person she should be doing intelligent things (like getting a degree/working as a professional/ being a good mother etc) and then her actions would speak for intelligence themself.

Issue here is not free mixing or socializing. It is how someone is viwed (perception) based on the outlook. Modesty, defined and practised by the Prophet and his companions, earns women respect for that they are humans and not objects of pleasure for the lusty eyes of indecent men.

Do you think women who are doing intelligent things their physique are not preyed upon by such filthy gazes?

Do you really think that men would pay attention to their intelligence when their eyes are charmed with the beauty of a girl?

Yes but for men who have a truely dirty mind how does parda stop them perving? They can just undress with their eyes, and the hijab would just add an element of 'mystery' making them think things like "I wonder how beautiful she is that she has to hide her face."

Back in Pakistan I heard an account of this pervert following a women in full burka home, because he wanted to see what she was hiding under the hijab. He was dissapointed to find an old women

Posted on 7/26/2005 10:58:41 PM