stariz said:As'Salamu'Alaikum wr.wb.
aray aray Zeshan... mera bhaii
itna gusa nahi
oski samjh ma agaya ha
aur yaar SALL questions kar rahi ha iska ya matlab nahi ka woh nahi janti... woh bhe janti hai bas is liye bhe kar rahi ha ka agar ya na karti toa koi aur karta
aur koi aur karta toa pata nahi kitni deer ma karta
wasa SALL ko ma janta ho
woh aur baat hai ya mujhay nahi pechan pai
Was'Salam...
ZEESHANAHMED said:Assalam o Alaikum,
stariz yeh baat nahi hai, jo aap samajh rahay hain. infact mujhay maloom hai SALL yeh sab samajhti hain, par is tarah unkay in sawalaat say non muslims hi nahi muslims main bhi misconception create ho sakti hai jaisa kay main nay kae jaghoon par point out kia hai hai she is misleading the readerers of the forum, and that should not be allowed. ok.
Allah Hafiz.
ZEESHANAHMED said:Here again you are misleading all the readers, pehli baat tu yeh kay stariz nay kisi baat may “mard kay ghar” ya “baap kay ghar” ki baat nahi ki, unhoon nay sirf aik traditional say way main ghar say muraad “family” li hai and you know it very well and can be easily seen from his conversation. And secondly, can you please tell me what is the meaning of “HOME”? Home tu kehtay usay hain jahaan kuch relations hotay hain wife, husband, children, father, mother, sisters, brothers and it cant be confined to just a COUPLE, nor a building. Aurat aik ghar se doosray ghar main jati hai, aur usay wo apna ghar hi kehti aur samajhti hai, not his parents’ or husband’s home. And note it again aap baar baar Pakistan ka naam le kar isay badnaam karnay ki koshish kar rahi hain. Aur jin “COUPLES” aur “HOMES” ki aap baat kar rahi hain na tu yeh main, aap aur sabhi jantay hain kay un ki boundaries har teesray din toot kar kisi aur se ja milti hain. Jabkay Pakistan main most HOMES aik baar bantay hain, kabhi na tootnay kay liye, remember it. Sorry if I am going a little harsh, majboori hai.
ZEESHANAHMED said:wahaan families parents kay sath nahi rehti hain, its correct, but can you answer why? Parents kahaan jatay hain unkay? You and me very well know that wo unhain kahaan chor aatay hain. Or at least alag tu rakhtay hain. Kia wo unkay right unhain de rahay hain aur apni duties ada kar rahay hain? Jab parents old ho jatay hain tabhi tu unhain aulad ki zaroorat hoti hai, aur wo unsay door apnay “HOME” main magan hotay hain, aur jis ko aap so proudly describe kar rahi hai, its pity. Aur aisa nahi hota tu aap ka yeh argument tu completely fallacious hai.
ZEESHANAHMED said:
SALL said:a last thing jo abhi mere zehn mei i hai,,,,,,,,
i ve heard muslim mard "non muslims aurat" se nahi sirf ehl e kitab se shadi kar sakte hein
we all know that Bible, Evangile and (probably) Torah are modified by man
to kya aisi shadi inn conditions mei bhi jaiz hai ???
(if u had enuff just leme know, coz my questions never end )
mera khyal tha aap nay parha hoga likin aap nay tu sirf suna hai, yeh tu hamari Holy Book Al-Quran main likha hai, aur aap nay phir bhi suna hai, mera khyal hai ab aap ko parh bhi lena chahiye. Aur yeh kay muslim woman non muslim man say shadi nahi kar sakti yeh bhi Quran main hi hai.
Waisay yeh baat Allah ko bhi maloom hai kay yeh books change kar di gaeen hain, kyun kia aap ka khyal hai Allah ko nahi maloom hoga aur phir bhi Allah nay ijazat di hai. Islam humain yeh sikhata hai kay hum aisai batoon kay positive meanings lain na kay negative. Yahaan Ahl-e-Kitab is liye kaha gya takay isay mushrikeen aur mulhideen say alag kya jaey jo log Allah kay sath shreek thehratay hain ya Allah ko accept karnay ko hi tayyar nahi. Ahl e Kitab yani true christian and jews at least Allah ko mantay tu hain, Allah ki ibadat tu kartay hain.
Jo samajhna chahtay hain wo baghair kisi kay samjhaye bhi samajh saktay hain aur jin logoon kay diloon par Allah nay muhar laga di hai unko kon samjha sakta hai.
God bless you.
Allah Hafiz.
ZEESHANAHMED said:
SALL said:
stariz said:and all I know it's that things based on IMAN and if our IMAN is powerful then nobody can take over nor even love. Keep in mind ALLAH and HIS RASOOL (SAW) come first then later our PARENTS and LOVE
bilkulllll sahi,, aik dammm sahi
but plz,, now dont tell me k mard ka iman aurat k imaan se zyada mazboot hota hai
coz it s a serious discussion aur meri hansi nikal jae gi
yahaan aap bilkul sahi keh rahi hain kay aurt aur mard kay iman farq nahi karna chahiye, but, by the way, stariz tu aisa kuch nahi likha jis ka aap nay yeh ridiculous answer dya hai. Unhoon ne kaha tha “if our IMAN is powerful” yeh tu nahi kaha tha kay mard ka. You should read this carefully. Aur unhoon nay jis flow main baat ki hai us main unhoon nay pehlay mard aur aurat donoon ka zikar kia hai is liye waisay bhi is ka yeh meaning ho bhi nahi sakta jo aap ne liya hai. Mard ka iman mazboot ho gat u wo correct decion le ga kay wo us situation main non muslim say shadi karay ya nahi even he is allowed. Aur aurat ka imaan mazboot ho tu wo Allah kay decision kay khilaf kuch karnay ka tasavvur bhi nahi karaygi.
ZEESHANAHMED said:.........
And you should correct “paki”, it is “Pakistani”, not “paki” remember it. And also aapki yeh baat bilkul ghalat hai kay Pakistan main non muslims ko lower class samjha jata hai, Pakistan main minorities ko jitne rights diye jatay hain itna shayed hi kisi country main diyay jatay hoon. France main beth kar Pakistan kay baray main comments deney say parhaiz karain.
ZEESHANAHMED said:jee bilkul buhat se couple ¾ years baad separate ho jatay hain, laikin aap yeh bhool gaeen kay in countries main non muslim couples ka haal is say hi bura hai aur wahaan separation hona koi unhooni baat nahi hai, jis tarah muslim countries main liya jata hai.
Aap yahaan topic say deviate kar rahi hain, khair, aur yeh baat kay they are no more muslims, still they are better than no muslims laikin yeh baat sahi hai kay akhlaaq girtay ja rahay hain, like apnay hi religion kay rules par criticism… aur yeh haal western countries ka nahi kafi muslim countries ka bhi hai, but that was out topic.
ZEESHANAHMED said:
yeh tu aap nay bhi mana kay koi non muslim mard kisi muslim lady kay liye muslim nahi hoa, and that is, of course, right. But jo reason aap nay batai that is absolutely wrong and misleading too. Yeh jo reason aap nay batai hai yeh tu completely religion say bezaari ki taraf point out karti hai, I hope it is not the case with you. The reason is that most of the people just not want to change their religion, and those, specially non-muslim, who change religion for just marrying a woman would most probably revert to their old religion after marriage. Aap nay aisay log bhi tu aakhir daikhay hoon gay. So extreme care is to be taken. Yeh tu aaj kal jo ho raha hai us ki baat thi, bari waja tu yeh hai most muslim women very well know that it is not allowed for a woman to marry a non moslim rather than thinking that their families would not accept him, and they are quite satisfied with it. And “things are changing now”, remember our Islam was the same, is the same, and will be the same, there is nothing going to change in it. All desired changing in Islam will put the desirer out of Islam.
ZEESHANAHMED said:yahaan I think stariz kuch ghalat likh gaey jis par aap buhat khush hui hain. Muslim chahay aurrat ho ya mard uski first priority uska religion Islam hota hai or at least hona chahiye. If if is not the case, then I am not talking about those people. And remember abhi may nay likha tha kay there are certain conditions that are to be met before marrying a non muslim women, aur un main aik yeh hai kay he will have to ensure that his kids are not going be non muslims. If after marriage he allows his kids to be non muslim tu wo kufar ka murtakib hoga, and you may well know what it means. Aur isi fitnay ko roknay kay liye kaha gya kay sirf Islamic territories main hi non muslim aurat say shadi ki jaey.
Definitely aap in couples say apnay country main hi mili hoon gi tu aap nay khud dekh liya kay bachay tu gaey Islam say aur wo khud bhi gunahgaar huay, that might not be the case in muslim countries jahaan bachay apna lifestyle apni nahi balkay apnay religion Islam ki marzi say choose kartay hain.
ZEESHANAHMED said:Very well said Islam sirf mard ko non muslim aurat (only Ahl-e-Kitab) say shadi ki permission deta hai, but under certain conditions, remember it. And also sirf Islamic societies main is ki ijazat hai, agar Dar-ul-Kufr main shadi karta hai tu yeh Makrooh-e-Tanzeehi (close to Haraam) hai aur agar Dar-ul-Hurb main karta hai tu yeh Makrooh-e-Tehreemi hai. And you said you were unable to understand it, so you don’t need tu understand it too kyunkay har baat agar aap ko samjhna hoti tu yeh religions kis marz ki dawa hain? Itnay rasool kyun bhej diye Allah ne? Is liye kay insaan ki akal mehdood hai, ...........................
ZEESHANAHMED said:Correct again kay aurat nay hi bachoon ki parwarish karni aur mard nay supervise karna hai tu is main confusion kit u koi baat nahi hai. Perhaps aap ko bhool gya kay nikah namay par likha hota hai kay aurat aur aulad ki zarooriaat poori karna mard ki responsibility hai, tu wo is liye hai kay wo aulaad ki sahi tarah parwarish kar sakay unhain poora wakt de sakay, unki tarbiyat kar sakay, aur mard ki responsibility hai wo unki zarooryat poori karay. Islam nay mard ko family ka head banaya hai, tu supervise bhi tu wohi karay ga. Aap ko President, Prime minister, Governors ki posts samajhnay main koi preshani nahi hoti tu aurat aur mard ki responsibilities ki kyun samajh nahi aati.
SALL said:yeh topic SAABBBBB k baare mei nahi hai
unn k bare mei hai who felt concerned