friend_16 said:

Doctor Sam said:

As i said in other topics, Log buss behas karne main khushi mehsoos kartay hain... isi main time guzar jata hai ..

Aik baar meri class main ye topic chirda tha by boys side k larkiyan hijaab kion nahi letien... Aray Logo Aap pehle apni line to seedhi karo ... theek hai achi baat batao zaroor. lekin istarah nahi k attack karna shuru kar do...

Islam main achi baat batanay aor buri baat se rokne ka bhi sawaab hai, lekin aap impose nahi kar saktay.

Same problem ... humain sirf behas karni hai .. baat nahi sunni na samajhni hai ...


Behna.. what do u think aap k answers ka koi theek jawab day ga... ? bohat mushkil hai, aik useless discussion start ho jaye gi...

we come here to discuss different matters not to "argue" .. if someone is asking a question it doesn't means that he/she wants to argue.. as i said before as well that its a human right to know. let people clear their minds .. and if u think they are arguying simply don't reply...

F 16 JEE... mujhe lagta hai main ne apni baat theek lafzon main nahi kahi hai ...
Main ne kabhi bhi doosron ko FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION pe kisi qism ka aietraaz karne ki jurrat nahi ki ... Kion k mere khayal main ye munasib nahi hai ..

Main ne apni post ki wazahat bazi bhai aor behna k replies main kar di hai, aap bhi dekh lijye ...

mere observation main baar baar ye e aaya hai k aisay controversial topics AT THE END aik useless behas par khatam hotay hain,

Aor bilkul aakhri baat, aap ne jis post ko quote kiya hai, wo to main ne behna ko likha tha ...

I m leaving the discussion with the hope k iska positive rslt aaye ...

Aasera said:

Sami Doci, upar wali post main mainay apnay topic bananay ka maqsid likh diya hay

+ yah bat sirf forums kay liyay nahin kahi balkay real life main bi aisa hi hota hay
mairi aksar logon kay sath bahs hoti hay about it, coz
yahan aisa hi kartay hain log, aap ko kisi bi bat par tok daingay, and jab unko ahsaas dilao kay, AAP BI TO KUCH AISA KARTAY HO JO BILKUL ISLAMI NAHIN HAY, ya KUCH ISLAMI FARZ HAY JO AAP KO KARNA CHAHIYAY BUT AAP NAHIN KARTAY to answer milta hay, mujhe nahin pata tha ya phir yah k ham farishtay to nahin hain
jaisay kay dusra shaks farishta ho

and jaisa aap nay kaha kay achi bat hay kisi ko bura kam karnay say rokna, ya phir kuch achi info daina, to yes hay,
but aisi info usi insan say sun kar asar karti hay jo khud bi aisi baton par amal karta ho.

Ths wt i was trying to say.. Yaqeenan aisa ho raha hai ..Kuch logon ko doosron ko toknay ka kuch zyada shoq hota hai, aor wo khud ko dekhay baghair doosron ko achi baatain zabardasti batanay k mission pe lagay hotay hain..

BUT there is a point... Dekho agar aap ko koi achi baat bata raha hai, to aap ye kion socho gay k wo khud amal karta hai ya nahi..? Usko ZAROOR amal karna chahiye. Lekin agar wo nahi bhi kar raha lekin aapko kuch acha bata raha hai to kya hamain maan nahi lena chahiye ? what do u think ?

Aor behna, jese main ne bazi bhai k post k reply main likha hai, main ne forum pe aor real life dono main aisay topics par ye e dekha hai k aik behas s shuru ho jati hai, dono taraf k log doosri party ko blame karne lagtay hain ... aor positive reslts nahi aatay ..

Bazigaar said:

Doctor Sam said:

Behna.. what do u think aap k answers ka koi theek jawab day ga... ? bohat mushkil hai, aik useless discussion start ho jaye gi...

...and u think u r the only one who will seriously reply to the topic

Aray bazi bhai ... i dont think I m the only One... Not At all.. Infact, it was my observation , i have seen many serious topics which end up gaining nothing.. Jese ye topic main baat Men k sr cover karne ki ho rahi hai, to usually aisa hota hai k boys girls ko blame karne lagtay hain k wo parda nahi kartien, pehle khud ko theek karain etc etc.. aor girls boys ko.. aor aakhir kaar, Ye sab aik BEHAS ban jati hai ... aor iska faeda koi nahi hota ....

So aap ye samajh lain k main ne itne saray sentences ko 3 4 sentences main khatam karne ki koshish ki thi ..

QUEEN VICTORIA said:

Doctor Sam said:

POSTING qv k liye...

shukria

My Pleasure jee

nikama said:

jahan bhi raho khush raho

same to U nikamma bhai...