cute huma said:jaha pyaar hota hai waha judai bhi hoti hai aur jaha judai hoti hai waha dard apne aap aa jata hai janaboh yaha per to bohet derd berhi batay ho rahi hay
jupiterblue said:ya ofcourse if i'm comfortable with him with his nature his financial status doesnot matter much to me bcoz i know tht even in worst conditions he is the one who'll always keep me happy.& so his financial status doesnot matter for me either he is rich or poor he shd be a good human being with a good nature good personality & a good family .if he has all these & he loves me i'll love him no matter whether he is financially sound or notso for u...its okey if he is nice and handsome....but poor???
sandalina said:sahi kaha pyaar ke badle pyaar aur wafa ke badle wafa yeh toh kis kisi ko hon naseeb hot hai .aaj kal toh if u sumone deeply u never get the same love in return hume toh milta hai sirf intazaar aur is intazaar ki aag mein hum jalte rehte hai bujhte regte hai aur koi hamara chain sukun sab leke araam se jeeta hai hume chod jata hai bas peeche intazaar karne ke liyeper yeh nahe jaante k intezar besud he musaffir lota nahe kerte bas andha dhund intezar ki agg men jalte rehte hen, hamesha un ko apne as pas mehsoos kerte hen woh chahe door bethker apni zindage men khush aur magan hon humen kuch pata nahe hota hum to bas un ki yaad men die jalate rehte hen
SaPnA said:really u r one of the most lucky ppl innthe world sapna bcoz u got true love & u really value iit.wht else does anyone needs if he or she gets true love as u have got.i think i am one of that luck gul $$dreams
sandalina said:aapne bilkul sahi kaha har zakhm bhar jata hai lekin judai ka zakhm apne pyaar se juda hokar zinda rehna haste rehna mushkil hi nahi namumkin bhi ho jata hai humara dil kabhi yeh manne ko tayar hi nahi hota ki jinhe hum sache dil se pyaar karte hai woh kabhi humare wishwas ko nhai todenge woh kabhi bewafa ho jayenge hum toh bas unse pyar karte rehte hai aur bas yahi mante rehte hai ki woh bhi hume utna hi pyaar karte hai aur humari yaad mein itne hi aasu bahate hai jitne ki hum unki yaad mein hum yeh man hi nahi sakte ki woh door ho gaye hai toh woh badal bhi skate hai woh hume bhool sakte hai unka pyaar kam ho sakta hai hum to bas andhe hokar unse pyaar kiye jaate hai aur unpar wishwas kiye jaate hai aur bas unke intazaar mein jeeye jaate haidreams tumare khayalat bilkul humare jese hen kisi se juda ho ker zinda rehna buhat mushkil hota hai dear, her zakham bhar jata hai per judai ka zakham nahin bharta mehboob se door reh ker hamesha yeh khadsha rehta hai ke kahin mehboob hum ne nata hi na toor lai kahin woh bewafa hi na ho jae, per jin ko bewafa hona hai woh ho jate hen her jaga her kimat per her waqat men un ko kisi ke ehsasat ki kisi ke dil ki koi kimat nahe rehte.
sandalina said:ya u r rght har zakhm bhar jata hai lekin judai ka zakhm nahi bharta jinhe bewafa hona hota hai woh toh kabhi bhi kahi bhi ho jate hai bewafa par u know bhale woh kahi bhi ho hume hamesha lagta hai ki hamara pyaar sacha hai aur hum jisse pyaar karte hai woh kabhi hamare wishwas ko nahi torega woh bhi hume itna hi yaad karta hoga hamare liye itne hi aasu bahate hoga jitne ki hum hamara dil use bewafa manne ko ya usse nafrat karne ko manta hi nahi hai yeh ek esa rog hai jiski dawa khud uparwale ke paas bhi nahi haidreams tumare khayalat bilkul humare jese hen kisi se juda ho ker zinda rehna buhat mushkil hota hai dear, her zakham bhar jata hai per judai ka zakham nahin bharta mehboob se door reh ker hamesha yeh khadsha rehta hai ke kahin mehboob hum ne nata hi na toor lai kahin woh bewafa hi na ho jae, per jin ko bewafa hona hai woh ho jate hen her jaga her kimat per her waqat men un ko kisi ke ehsasat ki kisi ke dil ki koi kimat nahe rehte.
PumPkin said:ya u shd also try to make ur frnd realize tht thr r other beutiful things i life to look to ask her tht give him some time to think mght possible tht he 'll come bk to her & if he don't then she can't just force him to love her & marry her she must not hurt herself if tht guy doesn't care at all for her feelings her emotions she shd try to concentrate on other things & tell her tht unless & untill u'll try to do & concentrate on summin else she can never come out of this prob once she decides she shd try working on it i know its not easy to froget first love but then nothing is impossible she shd not give tht guy so much of space so much of rght tht he thinks tht he thinks he is summone the best instead she shd try to make him feel tht she is the best & she can get & do anything she wantsits nice if it shows any effect on him
but at the same time u got to make ur friend to understand that she cant expect him too much
go make a social life meeting new people
shamikool said:i agree ki souls r not affected by distance lekin jab do pyaar karne wale juda ho jate hai woh jante hai ki they love each other unke beech mein trust bhi hai lekin agar ek apne pyaar ka izhaar karta rahe baar baar apni feelings express karta rahe aur doosra apni feelings express na kar paaye apne pyaar ko jata nahi paaye toh iska kya matlab hai,kya woh sach much express nahi kar paata wht he or she feels ya phir door hi jaane uske liye is pyaar ki ehmiyat kam ho gayee hai ya phir thr is sumone else in his or her life iska kya matlab mikala jaaye???????????????????I do not think pyar bartha hai ya kam hota door janay sai..
I think if you beleive in your love and trust, then it would not be matter, if it is far and near.
As long as it is in your heart and nothing is closer than your heart, so no matter how far your love is it is still in your heart(soul).
LOVE OF TWO SOULS CAN NEVER BE FAR APART BECAUSE SOULS ARE NOT AFFECTED BY DISTANCE.
Thanks Allah Hafiz.
sandalina said:sahi kaha woh bohot khushnaseeb log hote hai jinhe mohabbat bhi milti hai aur wafa bhi milti hai lekin ese bhi bohot kam log hai jinhe sachi mohabbat aur wafa milti hai aur woh bhi wafa kar paate hai kyoki aaj kal toh wafa bas kuch logo ke naseeb mein hi hoti hai aur kuch log wafa milne par bhi uski kadar nahi kar paate.lekin apni toh yahi dua hai ki jinka pyaar sacha hai unhe hamesha wafa hi mile aur woh kabhi juda na hoMohabbet kerna kisi ko nahin ata bas kuch loog mohabbet buhat ache andaaz men kerte hain aur age se wafa nahe milti aur kuch loog bewafai kerte hen aur un ko mohabbet hi mohabbet milti hai per yeh to kismat ki baat hai kis ko nafrat mile kis ko mohabbet.
ffm said:
MrDeath said:i wonder why she is proud of ya.
<font color="red"> arey is liye k mein ne 15000 post kar liye haina oh kiddo ji congrats for the good job mujhe toh abhi abhi pata chala isliye jaldi se post kar diya
is liye na
ffm said:aap achi tarah se jante hai ki mera net ka bill aapke net bill ki tarah fixed nahi aata i mean chahe din bhar net par raho kitne bhi ghante use karo sirf rs 600 hume per hr use ke hisaab se pay karna hota hai agar mera bhi net ka bill fixed hota toh i can be on net whole day so agar our conditions are same y not phir toh mein aapse poochna chahoongi ki if u have to pay per hr for net can u be online for the whole day kiddo ji
$$dreams said:
ffm said:aree kiddo ji me not kanjus ji
MrDeath said:we have two writers who write in blue.
<font color="red"> yeah sahi kaha
one iz our sweet admin wol ji
n otha ms kanjus .. ms jenny
<font color="red"> ya r kanjus
acha can ya stay on net fo a whole day
can ya ???
slik chik said:if u think tht this guy was really thinking on wht all u said then talk to him again & keep on saying good & nice things abt ur frnd & make him realize tht how much ur frnd loves him & tht he might not do anything now on whch he has to regret at a later stage of his life when its too late.tell him tht its hightime he shd seriously think abt his future & tht he also liked & loved ur frnd at some time or other & thr was summin special in ur frnd whch he loved & liked so think abt it & make a decision before its toolate
PumPkin said:lolz.....dats wat i told him aswell, i sed, listen,u tink marriage is a joke now, n dat u tink all ur frndz r wid u n ur havin a blast,ur able to get any gal u want widout even approaching her urself first, but like do u honestly tink ur frndz r gona be there n by ur side at any time u need them?noway man, they r gona move away n have families of there own, now a days ppl hardly have time to spare for there family, let alone frndz. n also, u tink dese gals r gona be willing to have anything to do with u in da next 4 or 5 yrs, noway, they will all settle down n u wont be able to get any young gurl u want at dat age!maybe time will change him
he wont think something like i dont want to get married for a lifetime when he's already 40-50 years old
just hope that he'll change his mind before too late.
no body wants to be alone
one day he'll realize that
it's the gal who want to wait or move on n find a better man
i told him dat hes only tinkin bout da present, but he aint tinkin bout the times wen hes gona be needing a companion da most, n dat is thro the old age.
he kinda got all deep into wat i was sayin. i tink it might start showin some effects. lets hope it does.!
n as fo pimkin, man, ur really getin da point, while alot of them aint!
ffm said:aree kiddo ji me not kanjus ji
MrDeath said:we have two writers who write in blue.
<font color="red"> yeah sahi kaha
one iz our sweet admin wol ji
n otha ms kanjus .. ms jenny
sandalina said:sahi kaha kabhi kabhi jab juda hone ke baad intazaar had se zyada bar jata hai tab yahi lagta hai ki kahi yeh pyaar khatam na ho jaye.log kehte hai ki kisi ke jaane se zindagi rukti nahi hai lekin hum jinhe sache man se pyaar karte hai jab hum unse door ho jaate hai juda ho jaate hai tab hume kyu esa lagta hai ki hamari zindagi ruk si gayi hai kyu har baat mein unki yaad satati hai kyu kisi kaam mein man nahi lagta bas unki yaadon mein hum aasu bahaye jaate hai aur hume milta hai tanhaii aur intazaar sirf intazaarakhir dil ki bhi kui kimat hoti hai dunya men kui kimat nahe
kahin men honsla na choor bhethuun
mere angan men aoo
tootte pate to dhekho
mere sab khikioon pe hijar ka kehra jama hai
mere darwazoon ke bazuu
tumare lootne ki chah men shaal ho gae hen
mere gher ke charaghoon ki har eik ruh
dard men dubi hui he
woh dhekho thar thrahat bain kerne lag gai hai
woh atish dan dhekho kis tarah suna rakha hai
woh dhekho raat ka khana para hai
yeh dhekho chae thandi ho gai hai
tumare khat, kitaben,card toffe
mughey milne ki khuwahish men mere charoon taraf
bhikre hui hain
woh ik tasweer mere samne ondhi pari hai
yeh gadle saliper
yeh suni ankhain
mere baloon men furkat jam gai hai
tumare lams ki hidat nahin to
mere puroon men sardi tham gai hai
tumara hijar had se bhar gea hai
mughey tanhai jhubne lagi hai
main khud se rabte na toor bethoon
kahin men honsla na ´choor bhethuun
kahin men honsla na choor bhethuun
sandalina said:wht u wrote is 100% rght pyaar ek hi baar karna chahiye aur agar hum us kisi wajah se us pyaar se door ho jaye toh hume yeh koshish karni chahiye ki kaise hum hamare pyaar ke zyada se zyada kareeb rahe kaise hamare rishte ko aur mazboot banaye aur kisi doosre insaaan ko hamare pyaar ke beech aane ki jagah hi na de tabhi hum hamare pyaar ko nibha sakte hai aur sache dil se pyaar kar bhi sakte hai henaper insaan ko appne jazbat per kaboo rakhna chahiye pyar eik bar kerna chahiye na ke hazaar bar mohabbet jaise khubsurat jazbe ko badnam nahin kerna chahiye bas eik bar mohabbet karo aur paki aur pure life k liye na ke hazaar bar.
Am i right???
ffm said:jab aap khud hi sun sun kar bore ho gaye ho i mean aapko aadat ho gayi hai aap khud hi feel nahi karna chate toh koi aapki help kaise kar sakta hai koi aapko feel toh nahi karva sakta na.its a feeling tht is felt by itself not forced to be felt<font color="red"> ah per meray saath kiyoon nahi hota aisa
aaj bhi kisi ne kuch kaha
per ya know
ab woh sun sun kar aadet hogayeeh ai
n no special feelings na:(
SibS said:i think love is for lifetime i love sumone who is very special for me & will remain forever now even if i'm engaged to sumone else my love fortht first person has not changed even a lil bit i'll love tht person till the end of my life so i don't believe tht love can happen many times its a true feeling whch comes only once in lifetime & those can have it for lifetime noone in this world is more luckier than them.its all crap that luv is just once ,maybe only in movies , i luved someone thinkin shes my life ,when shes gone , i strted smokin drinkin& all craps,thinkin thers no more luv for me, no more ,i cant luv anyone else .but its all just my thought's ,after a month i gradually forgot about her ,and fell in luv wit another one
so luv is many times ,not once , i didnt mean flirtin but luv is not just once in a lifetime
ffm said:sahi kaha ki hamara control nahi hota ese events par lekin jab koi doosra hamari life mein aa jata hai tab kabhi kabhi esa lagat hai ki yeh sirf attraction hai aur sacha pyaar toh woh tha jo hum peeche chod aaye jisse hum door ho gaye hai tab hume kya karna cahiye us sache pyaar se pyaar karna chahiye ya phir is doosre insaan se
$$dreams said:
sandalina said:i agree ki jazbaat sache hone chahiye lekin kai baar esa bhi hota hai ki door ho jane se juda ho jane par jab koi aur aaa jaye zindagi mein toh aapke jazbaat bhi badal sakte hai kuch pal ke liye aap behak bhi sakte haiager pyar sacha ho to kisi bhi tarah bharta hi hai khatam nahin hota han dil main jazbaat sache hone chahiyain bas pyar bharta hai aur ager dil main hi jhut ho to chahe kareeb rahain pyar khatam ho jata hai.
<font color="red"> yeah sahi kaha jenny
waqai aisa bhi hota hai
per ya know
apka kontrol nahi hota aisey events per
ya cant stop da otha person to enter in yer life
jo hona hota hai woh ho jata hai
slik chik said:very true love is the major part of life infact for me its my life.but not everyone thinks the same way some take it as fun but only a few can really really feel it & value it & also only a few lucky people get true love in return & then they share it for lifetime but everone is not so lucky bcoz most of the people just don't value true lovelove aint a thing dat u can pick up in ur hand and analyse it.
meaning of love i very personal.some peoples idea of luv is da typical bollywood filmy love, sum people believe love is a step further than friendship and sum people consider love a challenge and something to be taken seriously.
it depends on the individual how they approach it becuz the idea u have of love is based on ur experience of it or ur fantasy about it.
luv does exist, its a major part of life!
sandalina said:jab pyaar kiya toh darna kyadreams bilkul thek per dal wale akse batain chupa jate hen dunya ke dar se
sandalina said:i agree ki jazbaat sache hone chahiye lekin kai baar esa bhi hota hai ki door ho jane se juda ho jane par jab koi aur aaa jaye zindagi mein toh aapke jazbaat bhi badal sakte hai kuch pal ke liye aap behak bhi sakte haiager pyar sacha ho to kisi bhi tarah bharta hi hai khatam nahin hota han dil main jazbaat sache hone chahiyain bas pyar bharta hai aur ager dil main hi jhut ho to chahe kareeb rahain pyar khatam ho jata hai.
ffm said:oho kya baat hai ji itne mein hi dar gaye<font color="red"> old frns
baat kiya honee hai
koi poool khool raha hai
sandalina said:shai kaha dil walo ko ek doosre se dil ki bateein batani hi chahiye kyoki agar izhaar ne karo toh dil lene dil dene ka kya maza hai phirhmm yeh to hai per dil waloon ko kuch na kuch batana bhi perta hai jee, ager batana chaho to,
ffm said:kyu jooth bol rahe ho 2 bhi nahi hai 3 hai na ji<font color="red"> ssssshhhhhhhh
kiya na
bus
eik nahi hai .. i know 2 hain ... per both r same fo me na
ya know na
ffm said:<font color="red"> arey haan na jenny
ya know kiddi ..
haina
so tell me
k bus eik heee haina woh
tu .. me shareeff
