khudi khud say bhee hoo sakta hai .. "main"

main khudi karoon g ye kaam.. .. is main i think kuch mushkil tu nahi hai..

her cheez postive main bhe use hoo sakte hai -ive main bhe.. ziada khudhi ko barha do tu arrogance baan jaiy ga .. jo kay ghalat hai..

oops waqayee nahi parha .. ab parha hai ..

khudi sirf "self" ko kehtay hein .. agar self kay agay jitnay marzee add kertay jaoo .. is say -ive bhee aur +ive bhee words bantay hein .. like u said self esteem.. ye dono matlab main ata hai .. selfish .. self control.. self confidence... n so on .. simple "khudi" means "self"..

SALL said:

rite kashu n saheli


i got wot arrogance is
but can someone give me a brief (real) def of khudi

closest word to "khudi" is "self" .. n it can b takken as positive as well..

srk app nay suna ho ga .. iqbal ka shair:

khudi ko ker blund itna kay her takqeer say pehlay
khuda banday say khud poochay pata teri raza kia hai..

kuch samaj aiy?

Bazigaar said:

Dua_786 said:

Bazigaar ji pob har eak ki life main aati hain lakin diff diff tareeka sa
Or wasa bhi Allah us insan ka sab sa zada imtehan lata hai jis insan sa who piyaar karta hai.
Ok

ye philosophy ko to i don;t even buy k God us ka imtehaan leta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae....i think it;s just to make u feel satisfied k ohh God loves me...lol..naah...

think bout it...jab ham kisi se piyar kertay hain...to kiya us ko mushkil mae ka preshaani mae dekh saktay hain? nahi na...phir God un hee logoon ko kiyoon museebtain deta hae jin ko wo piyar kerta hae? naah...lame theory    

acha tu hum jis say pyaar kertay hein usay azamatay nahi kia?? mayb ye aik azmaish hai ...

QUEEN VICTORIA said:

aur ager kahin cheating ho rahi ho to..........?

ye wo exam hai jis main cheating hoo nahi saktee .. saab kuch record hoo raha hai.. saab proofs hoon gay jaab hamain result millay ga..

WARMTH OF LOVE said:

I hope you should follow the decorum of this Forum.

kis say ghalti hoo gaiy??

maloom saab ko hai par janaay kyun anjaan banay hein .. koi bara step kyun nahi laita?? .. hum saab mill ker is kay khilaaf batein tu kertay hein par koi step bhe tu laina chahyee ..
--> y don't we write articles in newspapers n mags??
-->koi haaltaal he ker doo mill ker..
kuch tu karoo khalee batein kernay say kaam he loog suntay hein ..

aur aik baat hamain in rituals .. tehwaroon say roka gia hai jo kay aur religions say resemble kertay hon.. aur basant ki background ka kisi ko pata hai kay ye kyun manayee jatee hai???

aik muslaamaan shaheed hua tha aur us ka ye loog mazakk uratay thay kay is ki rooh asmaan main perwaaz ker rahee hai .. aur us say ye kites ka concept aya.. (jo mujhay pata chala hai .. my professor told me it was something like that) .. kitnay afsoos ki baat hai agar hum is ritual ko adopt karein tu..

hmm sall .. probably that is ur latest art work ..nice

mujhay bhe aik question kerna hai n its for BAAZIGAAR..

"y do u always try to b funny?? .. i mean aik serious topic hai aur us main achee khasee discussion ho rahe hai .. aur aik apki beech main aisee post .. which i think isn't even related to the topic .. can't u stay something serious?.. just wana know the reason behind this?? just too curious to know..

yahaan kis baat per larayee ho rahe hai? .. .. kaun ganja ho gia..?

exactly mayb that girl wan't good enough for u .. .. waqayee Allah kay her kaam main behtari hoti hai..

i think self esteem aik limit taak sahee hai .. laiken agar ye ziada ho jaiy tu ye arrogance baan jatee hai .. aur arrogant insaaan kabhee successful nahi hoo sakta .. for the time being ho jaiy ga laiken baad main he'll repent on it.. coz pride shows ur better than others.. u can do better .. laiken nobody is perfect.. kaheen na kaheen us say ghalti zaroor hoo ge..

.. kuch nahi baas app loogoon ki batoon par hans rahe hoon..

waisay i prefer doing one thing at a time .. koi kaam tu sahe say ho ...

chalnay kay liay koi topics wagira bhee start kerin na.. sirf kehnay say nahi chalay ga..

simple go to his/her home ..   

hmm agar wo us city main he na ho .. tu wait for few days .. keep sending mails .. kabhe tu reply aa he jaiy ga .. keep sending offline smgs in yahoo msg .. ghar ka phone number hai kia?? udher bhee try ker lein..

kabhi tu Allah ka shuker ada ker dia karein..

SALL said:

aap to pehle hi depression ka shikar ho
zyada chee pa na kiya karo
warna nervous break down ho jae ga

so filhal bye to serious topics

hmm .. waisay i read somewhere kay jo loog ziada hanstay boltay hein .. bascillay wo boht depressed hotay hein aur apnay depression ko duur kernay kay liay wo dosroon kay saamnay is tarhaan hotay hein .. i dono wo pretend kertay hein ya unki nature main he aisay hota hai .. waisay Sall this isn't for u.. i just read this somewhere..

yes always hope for the best ...

baazi i thought is a serious corner .. yahaan kuch serious baat ho g..

hum nay tu sirf bataya hai .. ab app loog jo marzee kahein ..

Sall sahi say chalana .. jis tarhan baqee chal rahay hein ye bhee chal he jai ga.. .. i hope so..

main tu kafee late hoo gaiyee .. basant to khatam bhee hoo gaiyee ..

wo kaam jis main nuksaan ziada aur faida kam ho tu meray kahayal say tu usay nahi kerna chahyee...

Bilal

L

Arbab akaile he kahilee ja rahi ho??

haan hota ho ga --> tu hamain kia

life is the way u treat it .. ab soocho life mushkil hai tu mushkil lagay gi.. asaan soocho gay tu asaan lagay gi..

jaisay kash beauy.. onlyarbab n bush blasta nay kaha ... always thnks Allah ..

pehlay tu yahi thns kay Allah nay insaan banaya .. kuch bhee bana sakta tha .. phir muslim banaya .. come on guys .. there r gizzlion things jo us nay hum ko begair maangay deen hein .. agar hum ab bhee ye kahein kay life mushkil hai tu ye tu na-shukri hai..

aray kaisay Sall?? change kernay say aisa lagta hai?? for the time being logoon ko waqaye kuch hota hai par thoray he arsay main saab adjust hoo jatay hein .. ye tu mera personel experience hai..

..
jo doosroon ko convince kernay ki kosish karay wo discussion nahi jaanta??