King of jb said:ub ya kaha chali gai
King of jb said:lo gi mari taref say ek baar phir say welcome
Queen of jb said:
ZEESHANAHMED said:aap mujhay zee sahib kyun ketay hain
chota hoon main aap say i think.
MG ajj say app in ko chotta motta kaha karain ...
yani Mush jo rozana kehta hai apnay aamal say kehtay tu ham yahi hain 
aur yeh mat kahiyega kay women are exceptions..
main nahi dekhta hoon movies dramas waghaira, suchii i cant believe.
kis moderation ki baat kar rahi hain
shaid sood tu nahi hai par hai illegal. i dont think kay yeh sood hai, bcos money main sirf increase ho tu phir sood hota hai yani nuksan ka sawal hi paida nahi hota money owner ko. laikin share holder company kay nuksaan main bhi barabar ka shareek hota hai. jabkay is nuksan main company kay mulazimeen shareek nahi hotay. yani nuksan sirf share holder ka hota hai koi doora affect nahi hota.
SALL said:
ZEESHANAHMED said:OK answer to one question. Everyone here knows that, in Islam, muslims are not allowed to even see any non mahram, then what if that was truly practised, such events (leaving homes) could happen??
Z dear,,,
i ve no answer to ur question,,
balke me khud aap se aik saval karu gi
ARE WE LIVING IN AN ISLAMIC SOCIETY ??
mehram/na-mehram to bohot door ki baat hai,, we r not practicing any islamic rules,, this is a fact,,
ghar se bhaag jana is a consequence of our wrong way of life,, yeh khud se aik masla nahi hai,, yeh parents ki ignorance jo unhon ne apne bachon ko transfer ki uss ka nateeja hai,,, try to focus on reasons and not on the consequence
anwer tu har kisi ka yahi hoga kay we have no answer bcos we are not living in islamic society (should be called true islamic society). it means kay Islam main tu aisa nahi hai na kay parents ki marzi kay baghair shadi ki jaey bulkay is tarah ghar hi chor dia jaey. haan aisa hota hai kyunkay tarbiyat aisi nahi ki gae hoti, aur jo log sahi tarbiyat kartay hain wahaan aisa hota nahi.SALL said:iss se zyada pata ho to topic post karne ki kya zaroorat hai
Jia_ka_chand said:There is a differance between arranged marriages and FORCED marriages. An arranged marriaged is a perfectly sound and decent practice as long it's not taken advantage of and made into a situation where the parents are forcing their children into a relationship.
The nicest thing is a love marriage which is arranged. I've seen it work many times and theres respect on both sides.
When proposals came for Bibi Fatima (s) the Prophet (as) gave his daughter the full freedom to choice to say yes or no. That's how it should be done.
Personally, no matter how much I loved I guy, I would never go against my parents wishes, they are people who've raised me and know what's best for me.
abs right Jia, aur humaray Prophet nay Bibi Fatima ko freedom di thi accept ya deny karnay ki (aur yahi hak har female ko bhi hai), ye nahi kaha tha kay tum khud apnay liye larka passand kar aoo, unhoon nay kabhi kisi non mahram ki shakal bhi nahi dekhi thi pyaar tu door ki baat hai. main nay ye kaha tha kay girls ki baat ho rahi hai aur mostly girls ko hi ghar chorna parta hai aisi situations main.
kuch aur info honi chahiye.
shaista said:
but would u leave home?
shaista said:
meri raaye yeh hai ke parents apni aulaad ki behtari hi soochte hain. aur jis larke/larki se aaj tum naata joor rahe ho kia patta woh toor nibhaye ga ya naheen. aur parents apni aulaad ko allag naheen kar sakte. ghusse main bahut keh jaate hain lekin dil main to humaisha jagga rehti hai na.
i think u shd stick to ur parents. aur larke/larkiyan to aur bhi hain, woh eik hi to naheen hai na dunya main
