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WOL Its the translation in Urdu of the actual text. If it means the woman who desires in her heart separation from her husband, WOL's very right. If it means asking separation, than the first one explains it.
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I really don't want to to comment on the ahadeeth bcuz I don't know the source or content of it. There are, however, many weak and fabricated traditions attributed to the Prophet.
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KB, I didn't know you were also ML
again, its a personal choice. If she wanted to, she could ask for it. Its not just the story in ref., its a hypthetical scenario.
Adoption in Islam doesn't give the adopted child rights of inheritance. Relatives of blood will have first right on inheritance than the adopted child. Such child will only get a limited portion of the wealth and estate only if designated so.
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Queen, I can't believe we think we are making sabr!
Sabr doesn't mean to watch and endure sufferings in helplessness. It means to keep striving and take pains whatever comes in its way. What has happened to us today? We don't want to giveup a bit of our comfort and just want to pray from those comfort zones.
This dream might turn into a nightmare becuz we are failing the test by refusing to stand upto oppression.
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moon_light, tht's why we need divine injunctions as personal opinions may differ and at times clash.
Islam came for humanity of all times and so the Quran for all cneturies. Speaking of having children, both spouses have a right to have children. Do you not think, if husband cldn't provide the wife children, she shd & be able to seek separation if she wanted to?
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Marriage is the name of mutual understanding. its not by obedience husband and wife work with each other. If it is Allah's obedience both seek in act and spirit, they support one another in goodness and help each other stay away from evil. It is however, in some cases wife has to take husband's permission before carrying out certain acts (of course for those seeking Allah's pleasure above personal egos). This icludes her leaving home.
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LiL_DollY said:
awwwwwww I really like yah Bro.. You make me smile and really happy
Honestly...Ive been watchin your posts for the past three days. I wanted to be the first one to come and wish you whne you hit 1000. For a second I thought you were going to leave at 996...I was like oh no...and you didn't so that was the best part. hehe
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Just for a start.
1. unite on the platform of Lailaha illa Allah.... 2. Leave issues of conflict behind. 3. Be prepared to leave, sacrifice luxuries. 4. Think above self, family, village and country. 5. Depend on Allah. 6. Do not call enemies to help against your own. 7. Think of giving and forget taking. 8. Be steadfast and do not defect. 9. Honor and love your muslim brother or sister over anyone else. 10. Learn and excel in the field of liking and your deen.
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SALL said:
"imaan ki akhri manzil..............." --> SD s answer
yar,, im not against having 2 or even 4 wives tell me one man jo sab ko barabar rakh saka ho ?? (Prophets k ilawa) mard bhi to imaan ki iss manzil ko tae nahi kar paata
its a vv compl topic
its not the epic of iman. Author exaggerated the matter. In the same context of ayat, When Allah permitted men to take upto 4 wives, He mentioned it wld be impossible for any man to fully gratify his woman. Even the wives of our beloved Prophet used to be unhappy with him at times. allah SWT then revealed strict orders for the wives of the prophet. Bottom line is, man can't do justice with one wife, then why should he marry even one?
think of tht 
