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Qiyma: when a bedouin quested the Prophet saw about when it will occur, the face of the prophet turned reddish and he responded by saying, "What have you prepared for it."
Yes, death is the first opening to that world. and it may arrive anytime. Are we ready to meet Allah and respond to the questioning in the grave that will determine our end in the Akhira.
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Thanks for sharing pics from Topkapi Museum.
I don't think the cover shown in the first pic is for the sword of the prophet. Prophet SAW did not wear such lavish clothes, how could he be using a sheath such heavily broidered and embellished. this must be a work of artists that came later.Smooth_daddy39499.1133912037
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A tradition of prphet Muhammed SAW says that there will be a time when Muslims will follow Jews and Christians to the point if they will enter a hole in the ground, Muslims will follow them.
I think it is this time when our brothers and sisters are following everything that west does regardless of its validity in Islam or not.
I don't understand what is so special about this V-day that Muslims and especially Pakis are going crazy for it. Today, traditions of disbelief and sin is dearer to us than the traditions of our prophet.
We have seen intense protest when someone publishes cartoons of the Prophet but we are shameless and heedless of the mockery of his traditions - having no hesitation in rejecting what he taught us.
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Simply, if you can't live a life wid ur hubby, there's no sin in divorce. Though permissible but this is the most despised of all permissible acts in the sight of Allah.
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After sleeping over the issue, I concluded that squad is dandy but Dhamaka is new and deserves a chance to rock. So I guess our JB gals need a boost and guys should support 'em. So I'll lend them a hand with my vote. So go and make some loud dhamaka
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UL24, you didn't answer my questions. I think I have understood your problem. I want to understand what 'ld be the extent of damage if you separated from him.
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I got your point.
If he's not a LPR yet, you can negotiate a settlement for money and get out of this misery. If he got his paperwork all taken care of, then he thinks he is returning the favor and being nice by keepin you as a wife. I bet he feels bad inside for using you but he won't admit it.
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I think its just a farce. Story doesn't make sense. Sorry SG don't mean any offense but story has big holes in it and it doesn't jive with trends and patterns of those perpitrating that heinous crime.
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udaaslarki24 said:
listen he doesnt smile at me, he says hes got no time for me for everyone else he has time, but for me he does not iam lonley and misreable so if i leave one day maybe it will be a good thing i cant be lonley like this for the rest of my life u know the point of getting married is haveing someonees company and if he doesnt give it something is wrong
That is a problem! I agree wid sunz about what's bugging him and whyz he doin tht? You must see a marriage counselor.
Remember, "you can't give something you don't have." If he's not happy, he can't give happiness to you. If he is not talking to you, he must be talking to someone else. You must find that person and ask him/her about what's bothering him and why he's keeping aloof.
Let me ask you this. How long have you been married and has his behavior been like this since your marriage? Do you live with in-laws or in an extended family?
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There are those who only trade flowers and then there are those who spread thorns. Which one is you? If you can answer this, you know the answer to your question
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There is some merit in your quest udaaslarki24. I respect all opinions but I'd like to expand on Ashi's word. Marriage is much bigger than mere $ and luv. They are small integral part of marriage. Its very easy in some people's mind of walking away from it just bcuz of an element of it is missing.
No one is perfect and am sure you are not perfect either. Instead of looking at the glass "half-empty", look at the glass "half-full." Count your blessings and be thankful of that. Now don't get me wrong here! In no way I condone your hubby's behavior. A successful marriage requires a balance. If one partner's behavior causes a disbalance, the other weighs-in a little more to balance till it is restored evenly.
Think in +ve ways the problem can be solved. Breaking away is never a solution, its an easy escape.
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§Allah Rakhi§ said:
it z sin. me chnd roz pehly e suna tha agr carelesnes ki wja sy b asa kuch ho jaey to b is k bdly 2 mnths k rozy or kch or b bdly may krna prta hai....or kahan ye k jan boojh k kia jaey.... jan bachany kliay isko jaez ya halal to ni kaha ja skta mgr ye wahid situation ha jis may iski ijazat d gai ha wo b tab jab or koi chara na rahy......baki rape ya koi b situation o it is totaly haram or iski sza b whi ha jo qatil ki sza ha
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What baby are we talking about here? It is not a baby unless life comes to it. It is a mere blood clot in the early stages of pregnancy. Quran, hadith and science prove that. It is by the will of Allah, when an angel is appointed which writes down the provisions and all that allah ordains for the soul and then the soul is blown into the fetus which then becomes alive. That's when it is life. Killing that life is a murder.
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One of the signs of the Hour is that the ruler of the people would be the worst of them...meaning, more corrupt, greedy, lustful and selfish than most people under his rule.
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Well, there has been a lot of debate on when the fetus is live and when it is not. Without going into that issue, In both cases you mentioned above, abortion is not permissible. In my very humble understanding, it may be allowable before the fetus reaches the state of life. I have my reasons and evidences to back that up. But I will not ask anyone to take my opinion and use it as proof. If anyone does it, they do it at their own responsibility.
I am seriously concerned that people are not ashamed of having extramarital/premarital relationship but are ashamed to carry the result of it. People who do not have haya with Allah, they will not shy from taking a life to cover their own sin from people.
Rape victims shall also not kill the life Allah created in their wombs even though they had no desire for it or that they are not responsible for it.
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That is a very broad question. Permissibility of an act depends on circumstances and timing. At least, I can't make a blanket statement of total rejection or acceptance of an without knowing the situation or without understanding the issue.
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Well, I had the feeling. No offense but that's how people start believing in magical action of prayers and forget about the real ingredients of dua and conditions for its acceptance.
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and 300,000 must have visitied the paltalk website as well! A million visitors would really make that site look like a very popular place to visit and in turn will attract sponsors. If there are 300,000 petioners, the site would definitely shut down. It doesn't need mil. petitioners.
Dude, I have a hard enough time trying to dicipher what the hell it is that you're trying to say half the bloody time!!
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