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Topic: Any habits you quit this Ramadhan 4 good!

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SALL said:

not in ramadan,, but for last few months im trying to quit each n every bad habit

-pride / arrogance... hmmm i didnt realise before but i think im (i was) arrogant,, as i cant see any other big bad habit in myself,, this cld b the reason of all my pbs

-seeking praise 4 self / attention ?¿ explain plz,, seeking praise is wrong but how cld it b wrong to seek attention ??
-grumpy face
-disobedience to parents... hmmm,, i believe ehtsaab sab se pehle apna hota hai, then try to change ur family/friends..   i dont disobey my parents, but.........
i cant stand when they say n beleive somethng wrong



doing something good to seek mere attention or praise makes one self-centered. Seeking encouragement, reward & approval of good work, feedback and accepting criticism makes one humble.

Only when parents command shirk or to commit acts displeasing to Allah, one may not obey 'em. In all other circumstances they should be obeyed. showing displeasure to parents even by sighing "uff" is prohibitted. If you disagree with something they say or believe, be very cautious and polite suggesting your view or other alternative.
Posted 09 Nov 2004

Topic: Roop

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shahrukh khan said:

Kya shetan aurat ke roop main ata hai?? waiting on smooth_daddy comments...he know a lot of information abt islam,,,the way he comments is very nice...so smooth come fast



sorry, I missed it the first time.
Sall why ru butchering his post

any way, you got many answers to your quest. I understand your quest as shaitan appears to us in in the form of women!

Quran tells us it is an avowed enemy who openly declared war against humanity. Quran tells us that shaitan attacks from all sides, from the front, back, right and left and beneath. Elsewhere it is stated that satan runs with the blood in human viens.

In surat Al-Imran, v.14, Allah swt identifies things with which shaitan lures men.
"Beautified for men is the love of things they covet; women, children, hoarded heaps of gold and silver, branded beautiful horses, cattle and fertile land. This is the pleasure of the present world's life; but Allah has the excellent return with Him."

Allah did not mention it for women not because they are not tempted by men or things of pleasure but only becuz same applies to women with only changing the gender.


We know from the seerah of the prophet that shaitan appeared before the battle of Badr in the form of a man. It sure can take other forms but he cant't take up the appearance of our beloved prophet.


Posted 09 Nov 2004

Topic: Fasting after Eid

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make up while fasting in shawwal after eid
Posted 09 Nov 2004

Topic: American Politics

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Thousands of 'em moving to Canada
can't tolerate bush's tyrinical rule
Posted 09 Nov 2004

Topic: ~ Philosophy ~

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Sall, your question and your commets surprised me.

Your comment about wasilah - my God, a concept of jahiliya being questioned for validity

Allah SWT says:
And when My servants ask you, I am indeed near to them. I respond to the invocations of the supplicant when he calls on Me So let them obey Me and believe in Me, so that they may be led aright.    Baqrah: 186

Secondly, Asking Allah SWT with wasilah (human etc) puts Allah's integrity in doubt.
Posted 09 Nov 2004

Topic: Fasting after Eid

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Rafia said:

say if u miss any fasts
then u keep the shawaal
do u hav 2 keep th ones u missed
or do they get counted in the shawaal



I checked, its permissible
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: American Politics

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shahrukh khan said:

jab tak muslim ALLAH se nahi darien gey...aik hona mushkil hai..tabhi tu ALLAH muslims ki help karega



true
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: ehtasaab

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Do you mean doing neither good nor bad?

That's also good in given circustances. Did you want me to expand on that!
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: ehtasaab

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SALL said:

does it mean tum ne pehla roza rakha
hmm,, khair,,




hmmm,, and wot abt staying away from
BAD and GOOD things



didn't understand your ques, Sorry
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: After Eid

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I always find your topics interesting, so keep posting.

fun and laugh's fine and I enjoy it when you guys do it.

keep smiling but don't laugh too much.

happy posting
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: After Eid

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SALL said:

just one thing,,,
i read that day in Quran paak,, HARAAM KHANE SE NAMARDI AATI HAI.. namardi means buzdili
aur haraam bohot tarha ka hota hai,, khane mei, rozi mei, amaal mei

hum logon ne jo apne baron se paya hai wohi apni aulad ko de rahe hein,, that s y khud aik choti si burai karte wakt hum jab yeh kehte hein na k,,, it s okk yarr iss se kya fark parta hai,,, fark parta hai, keep one thing in mind, hamesha,, k hamari next generation hum se 4 haath agay hi hogi
it s like a vicious circle,, par kissi na kissi ko to pehel karni hogi yeh movement torne liye..


ab humein ninu i hai,, iss se pehle k hum patri se utrein,, hum chale,,, baki phir kabhi,, zindagi rahi to



plz tell me where you found that. I am failing to recall it.
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: After Eid

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I am only interested in worthy topics. I will post so long as I can.
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: -- SAWAAB --

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Very good question sall

Allah forgives his rights except for sharing partners with him. SO if someone is neglectful of prayers or fasting or Zakat etc., Allah may forgive those sins upon repentence. Mind that these forms of worship are prescribed to shield one from from other sins and raise their level of taqwa.

Now lets move on!
Allah is just and will not allow any injustice on the day of justice (promise of Allah in Quran).

For crime against humans, there are punishments in Islamic law for people to receive punishment in the Dunya for their sin in the world, like for musder, stealing, slandering, false witnessing etc. for a greater good of the society. Allah SWT sayas in Suratul Baqarah: And there is life for you in Al-Qisas O men of understanding, that you may acquire Taqwa."
For one who didn't get justice in this life will get after it. There is no pardon for preying upon people without the consent of the agrieved.

So you find that there no punishments for not believing in Allah, prophet...., not praying, not fasting etc. because it relates to Allah only. For societal crimes, punishments are prescribed or pardon from the affected party.

Does it answer your question Sall?
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: musalmano

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what about the news of a blast in an Islamic School in hollahd? any body knows details what actually happened there!
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: ~ Dil pe Mohr ~

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On the other hand, you will find those who were born in a non-Muslim household, but they accept faith and remain steadfast on it.

This leads to your other question, Sall, about
SALL said:

well,, now back to dil pe mohr,,
i was always confused abt this term, coz it s said Khuda jisse chahe seedha rasta dikha de,, to me hamesha sochti thi k aise hi Allah miyan jiss k dil pe mohr laga dein to woh shaks maafi nahi maange ga, par yeh (Allah mujhe maaf kare) thori si na insaafi ho jae gi



This phenomenon is so very wrongly understood among Muslims so much so that all the blame for mischief is set upon Allah.

Allah SWT has been merciful to mankind as He sent messengers and messages to guide the mankind to the true path. Guidance is for those who truly seeks it. And one who receives guidance in the heart, none can misquide such person who has accepted (choosen) to hold on to Allah's guidance. And the one who doesn't seek guidance from Allah, will not find it and will remain misguided. Allah SWT sayas in Suratul Baqarah: "Those are they who have purchased error for guidance and torment at the price of forgiveness."
Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: ~ Dil pe Mohr ~

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You know funny thing is that knowledge is there...in the Quran & hadith ... its just upto us to take a dip into it.

Sall you found the correct answer. I however, wanted to add a cpl o'things.

I'm sure you know the diff b/w muslim & momin... people in the time of Prophet (pbuh), especially after conquest of Mekkah, entered the fold of Islam and claimed to be believers. Allah SWT revealed the verses in Suratul Hujurat, saying : The Araab (bedouin Arabs) said the believed, say to them that they did not believe, they merely submitted (accepted) the truth but Imaan did not reach your heart...

In verses before this one Allah SWT gave the description of iman settling in the heart. He, the exalted says to true believers (momins): And But Allah has endeared the faith to you and has beautified it in your hearts and has made disbelief, Fusuq and `Isyan hateful to you.

So mere muslims whose heart is not attached with Allah but only performs rituals is prone to sinning because the heart devoid of imaan accepts notions of disbelief, fisq and isyan and resultantly sins without even thinking its a big deal. When this practice continues unabated, heart becomes like a hard baron ground that will not produce any vegetation (virtuous deed) even after a heavy rainfall (reminders after reminders from the book of Allah). This is when they reject faith and stick to their own set of believes no matter how many proves may be brought out from the Book of Allah and the life of His Prophet (pbuh).

more in the next post

Posted 08 Nov 2004

Topic: Description of the Prophet Mohammed (PBUH

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shahrukh khan said:

ONE GR8 PERSONALITY MOHAMMED (PBUH)



absolutely

deserves ouy love more than for ourselves and other loved ones
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Topic: Advertisement

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no idea what ur talking abt
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Topic: ehtasaab

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staying away from bad things is ibadah. so all you did is good.
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Topic: American Politics

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Only when we put differences aside, learn to agree to disagree - peacefully

we will not be able to unite.
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Topic: heee haaaaaaaaaaa..

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Start from self, don't look at others man!

I wld lov to avail the offerings of Jannah but what motivates me is the fear of accounting with Allah.
Leave that alone, I am scared of accounting in grave.

Success thru that is jannah for me. Freedom from fire is jannah for me. I fear same for my loved ones

Life's a very very serious matter, its offerings are of very little value.
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Topic: After Eid

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feradiya you answered your question to a great extent.

We have developed very wrong understanding of the religion. Partly, its fault ov moulvi, parents, teachers, society, and self.

Ibrahim (AS) recognized Allah by himself. Research shows that need for diety is is built in human gene.

This is one of the reasons I disagree tableeghi way of thinking. Bcuz it invites to the Fadayl of Amal but not the obedience - roohul amal.

We teach kids rituals - body motions but not the worship. ur rite we present a monster God to kids. We forget to mention that He keeps us alive with all faculties of senses and mobility without us having to do anything for him. He keeps us healthy and saves us from calamities without any compensation.

Se see happiness in material things bcuz we think people who get those using illegal means are happy. Happiness is not in things, its in the heart. We ought to teach our kids how to be happy and thankful with what you get.

One condition of taqwa is arrida bil qaleel, happiness with little provisions.

Let's practice real Islam and not the customs and ritual and teach the same to kids.
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Topic: After Eid

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SALL said:

paaarrrrrrrrrrr kyuuuuuuuuunnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn





becuz they fail to master their desires, instead let desires be their master. This is when ones' own nafs becomes the Ilah (God) ov oneself.
When this Ilah is challenged, the body responds with rage because it is subserviant to it. When ayahs of Allah are openly opposed, body and mind are not even moved or even dislike such act.

Desesitivity creeps in
Posted 05 Nov 2004

Topic: -- SAWAAB --

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I am glad it makes sense to you.
Posted 04 Nov 2004

Topic: MESSED UP!

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shahrukh khan said:

yas lock ur topic..i didnt...any further discussion..this topic will be locked 2[/QUOTE

I think that's enuf SRK
Why do you use a havy hand on every matter.

I hv bn coming to JB for years, read posts and leave and didn't post anything. But I have seen over and over again that heavy handedness forced people to leave. Bazigar was victim of that - ask sharara & sanam.
So mend yr ways!

Posted 04 Nov 2004

Topic: American Politics

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well said

Funny thing is the whole OIC meeting doesn't get as much of attention as much as OBLs one statement.

Only those count who stand for their belief. Those who flip flop depending of circumstances are hypocrates.
Posted 04 Nov 2004

Topic: American Politics

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Hopefully John Edwards would run next time or Hilary Clinton amy take shot at it.
Posted 04 Nov 2004

Topic: ..USA MUSLIMS:Bush or Kerry?

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YAS said:

it aint like they gona take u guys out the crib n start shootin...



...been there done that

so when it comes to that point then you think one's enemy of yours!
Posted 04 Nov 2004

Topic: ..USA MUSLIMS:Bush or Kerry?

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Let's hunker dowm
Posted 04 Nov 2004

Topic: ..USA MUSLIMS:Bush or Kerry?

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Let's hunker dowm
Posted 04 Nov 2004
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